4 Best Start for First Dates
Are you ready for love
Whether you’re 39 years old and concerned about a ticking clock,
32 years old and feel you’re the last of your friends.
55 and not sure how you get started again,
74 and feeling you don’t want to be the next 20 years alone.
I’m here to advise and hopefully lead you down that path to love!
The single people are out there but it’s hard to get the time to find the right one.
It is vital to think of our bucket list and know what you really want.
It’s about meeting the right person by opening up as many ways as possible.
Be creative and connect meeting that partner by doing your bucket list and refining what you truly want.
I have so many clients who come to me and have every aspect of their life sorted. All they need is that unique partner to share it with.
Dating online works for 1%, so if you have the time, Tinder is good to try and POF also. They are free too. Be prepared to meet a lot of messers and fake profiles. However there are genuine people out there though searching is time consuming!
Take up a hobby to meet new and interesting people.
Open up every avenue. Different approaches suit different people, but the more you do the more likely you are to meet your dream partner.
When going on that special date, within the first 8 seconds we make judgements about one another. This could be one of the most important “interviews” of your life. Look your very best. Be the best version of you.
I advise ladies to meet for a drink rather than a walk as men are very visual. Sarah 35 went on a date with Sam 39. Sarah wanted to make an impression. Please ladies, if in doubt ask me. You never show to much leg AND a low cut top. One or the other. Rome wasn’t built in a day!
Leave the past relationship behind. Be genuine and wholesome. (For more info on leaving your baggage behind feel free to email Sharon@thematchmaker.ie)
I got Gabriel (age 44) to do an exit list. This is to deal with all baggage and be in a happy place for going forward. He was still name calling in relation to his ex. Write down all your exs. Add what you learned from that relationship and in your head, send her a thank you letter. You’ve discovered more about what you don’t want which means you won’t make the same mistake again.
Those who come to The MatchMaker have gone through a profile and been given tips and advice to suit you. You are meeting that person because they have qualities and aspirations that match yours. Don’t be afraid to discuss them.
Have fun, respect yourself and is chemistry there make sure you really get to know each other emotionally first.
100% of people who come to the matchmaker are looking for a genuine relationship and find they are making bad choices. I unblock you and help love go your way. I get rid of the messers and advise you where you can be a better you. You are now opening up for a loving and lasting relationship.
At the matchmaker we have to separate the men from the boys, the players from the lovers and the guys who just want to date from the guys who want to get married. It’s up to you to let us know what you are looking for. This is where you can save months of dating as you know these details from the start. It’s just to find next is there that potential spark with you.
One of the most enjoyable part is being like that magic middle lady that can find out what the other half is thinking. There are so many relationships I’ve helped save through lack of communication by not keeping that balanced momentum going and being able to help people by advising you in the right avenue.
E.g. Jill (not her real name) age 54 really likes Martin. He’s 59. She’s more interested in him than the other way around. If the balance isn’t equal it’s hard to keep the relationship going. Instead of her worrying about it ending I’ve encouraged her to believe in herself take a chill pill. Within 3 weeks the relationship is now going strong and at a speed they are both acceptable with. If I wasn’t there for the advice this would never have lasted!
So again be the best version of yourself. Be kinder to yourself. Be happy.
If privacy, trust, advice and time are issues for you. Call me and if nothing else we can have a chat and see can I help you! Call or text Sharon 0860711711
Here’s to love