It doesn’t matter whether you have make the wrong choices to date. All your Relationship genuinely get you closer to Mr/Mr Right.
We are in a Relationship for:
1. A Reason
2. A Season
It all boils down to you and your growth. It starts with LOVING YOURSELF first. It sounds so obvious, but so many of us criticise ourselves on an on going basis. Even the most confident clients have their achilles. So many clients put work first and then say, “I should have come to you years ago”.
Unlike other dating agencies or matchmakers, I make sure you are in the right place. The average person is in 3 Relationships in their life. Sometimes it’s with the same person as you Grow and Change together with age and maturity. You MUST know you. I’m here to help you know yourself better. Nobody who is genuinely looking for love wants to be not be there forever. Not even the so called players on on line dating. It’s hard going back on line dating again and again.
You must be you. The imperfect real you. As they say everyone else is taken. Stop trying to change others. Stop procrastinating and over analysing. As I often tell people it’s not the most stunning person who picks up their match, it’s the person who is having the fun and looks happy and content.
So what if you don’t feel your ready. You motivate yourself. Take the bull by the horns. Stop critising you and start now.
You need to feel:
Gratitude, strength and commitment and love WILL come your way. I’m there to tell you where you are going right and wrong. You can text me around the clock and I’ll get back asap to help you.
After getting you sorted:
1. Let’s build your self confidence, knowing your values, qualities (which many over look) and respect.
2. Let’s do your “Circle of Life” and balance your heart & head.
3. Through your “Dream Board” we will discover your needs and wants.
75% go for like. Let’s make sure you know your type.
So let’s see love go your way.
Contact me today, just send a hi to 0860711711. I’ll come back and remember, we are made to thrive not survive. So get moving now.
There is no better feeling than loving and receiving love in return.
They say you only get one chance to make a first impression, this of course is absolutely true.
We all make immediate decisions and conclusions on a person the minute we see them.
Here at #Thematchmaker.ie I believe in giving straight up advice to my clients when I send them on a first date. From appearance to conversational no nos.
So I’ve taken the liberty of compiling a short list of do’s and don’ts for the big night!
Make a concerted effort with your appearance. The most important thing is of course cleanliness.
Now you may think “Jeez Sharon we all know to shower before a date!”
But you wouldn’t believe how many people go out in a shirt they’ve worn the night before or old jeans, so while they may have had a shower it doesn’t look it.
So keep the outfit simple, stylish, & above all something that’s clean and suits you and you feel comfortable in.
Clean well-groomed hair is a must for both men and women!
Wear anything that you feel uncomfortable in, or that you have to adjust constantly. It will make you look nervous and you wont look confident.
Relax and try have fun. This isn’t a job interview! It’s supposed to be fun! Let your sense of humour shine! Display your intellect, don’t be afraid to be you! Be confident and relaxed and of course be yourself.
Talk about the exes!! I cannot stress this enough! Here at #Thematchmaker.ie I advise all my clients so many times no to mention their exes. It’s suffice to say you were married and now divorced, or that you had one long-term relationship and are now single.
Don’t go into details about the breakup or how you feel about it. Steer clear of that one!
Feel free to do something different to the normal coffee or drink. How about a walk in the park if that’s more your thing?
Be comfortable and safe with whatever you decide to do.
Meet someone from online in their home or invite them to yours! Safety with online dating is paramount. Who people say they are online may not be who they actually are.
I think that’s why coming to me #SharonKenny at #Thematchmaker.ie is a safer better option.
I personally vet each person thoroughly!
But if you must online date do give as much details including phone numbers of the individual you are meeting.
Smile and have fun, swap fun stories and above all enjoy your evening. Don’t rush ahead too fast allow any potential relationship to develop in its own natural time.
Be late! It’s polite to be on time it shows respect for your date and demonstrates interest.
Of course if unforeseen circumstances delay you, that can’t be helped. So call or message to explain I would always advise a call. A phone call stands out today in a world of texting.
Well I hope I have given you some basic tips to help make your first date as successful as can be.
I will of course go into more details on upcoming blogs about good outfits for different types of dates etc..
But for now relax enjoy the dating and if you find the harsh world of online dating too much for you, don’t hesitate to contact me Sharon Kenny at #The matchmaker.ie and I will find you your perfect match!
Keep Loving Yourself
Lots of Love
Sharon Kenny The matchmaker.ie
A big question I often get asked here at #Thematchmaker.ie is “why do I need a matchmaker when there’s free online dating?”
Well I’m going to tell you why in today’s blog.
Picture the scene. A nice glass of red wine, some of your favourite tunes on and you’re curled up on the sofa about to embark on the wonderful world of online dating!
All excited you’ve downloaded the apps found some cute guys or girls swiped right but mostly left because most are looking for a one night stand or something casual.
That’s not you. You’re looking for the real deal here.
You read profile after profile all the details of someone’s life as they want you to see them.
Two hours have passed already by this stage.
Now here’s where it gets tricky.
Nobody puts up the whole truth here!
That guy who loves the gym but looks like he hasn’t walked a mile in 20 years, that woman who says she’s not a huge drinker but in every photo she’s out having fun with a glass of alcohol in her hands.
One lady I know went to meet a fit healthy non-smoker she says, “He told me he was a gym fanatic when I went to meet him he was very overweight and smoked! As we walked around Dublin I had to slow down for him constantly and all he wanted to do was sit!”
So apart from the slight exaggerations on peoples profiles what else happens in online dating.
Well the hours and hours spent trawling through profiles is bad enough but then BING someone has matched or sent a message so the “conversation” begins.
Hi sexy I love your smile how come you’re single? That’s if you’re lucky mostly it’s just a “Hi”.
So hours and hours even days are spent chatting & you start to wonder “are we ever gonna meet?”
But most likely the conversation vanishes and you’re on to the next messenger!
I won’t go into the chancers who are only on their for Sexting, the scams looking for your money, the couples looking for a “playmate”, the bored guy who doesn’t know what he wants, and of course the litany of married men & women looking for sex!
So a lot of my clients here at the #matchmaker.ie have run the gauntlet of all these types and many more including stalkers!
People come to me because here at #thematchmaker.ie I meet each client individually, I go through any issues that may be holding them back dating wise. From personal appearance advice to first date conversational advice.
The big difference is I spend time with each client and I have a list of comprehensive questions I ask.
I vet each client personally & I have even declined clients if I don’t think they’re truly ready to find “the one”.
There’s no married men or women on my books. I check everyone personally.
When you meet me I get to know you personally so I can find the very best match for you. We sit talk have coffee and it’s a relaxed pleasant and hopeful experience the total opposite of online dating!
The people who come to me are serious about finding love, they aren’t playing at dating they are interested in knowing a person.
I have done those hundreds of hours online trawling through profiles for you & just imagine the amount you’re goanna save on wine! No frustrations and no unsolicited photos of parts of the body only a doctor should be seeing!!
So if you’re looking for real love, true love, put away the apps and invest in a quality service that finds quality matches for genuine people.
Let me #Sharon Kenny take you by the hand and make the process of dating seem exciting and safe again!
Keep loving yourself
Lots of love
Sharon Kenny #Thematchmaker.ie
Hi there I’m Sharon Kenny, The Matchmaker.ie.
I have had many years of happy memories in the Matchmaking business.
I felt today I wanted to share some of those happy experiences with you.
So todays Blog is a list of testimonials from just a few of the wonderful couples I’ve put together.
I hope you enjoy reading through them even a fraction as much as I enjoyed matching them.
“I have availed of Sharon Kenny’s service and have found it to be very professional, and I have found love with Max”
F.C (female 29)
“If it was not for you Sharon I wouldn’t have dated and matched or be in a relationship for the last 2 years!”
“Heard you on Liveline U were great. Myself & L**** are still together. Thanks for the introducing us Kind Regards D”
“Hi Sharon. This is D you matched me with C last August…. Very successfully I have to say….. Just letting you know we got engaged today. Another success story Sharon…. Will keep you updated…. Thanks again for the perfect match you were spot on!!”
D (male 57) engaged to C (female 49)
“Sharon P and I are getting Married!! Thanks to you and God!! Massive and endless thanks for bringing us together.
You made me the luckiest girl in the world! Its gonna be a low key intimate family wedding next summer cant wait”
C.M (female 49)
Marrying p (male 55)
“Sharon we have a date on Wednesday at 5pm and I cant wait to see her again. We are going to Mass together first then a meal afterwards. What a lovely lady and I love her to bits xx”
B.O’B (male 61)
So you can see from just some recent Testimonials love is out there to be had. There are people searching for a relationship just like you are! I can find them for you and match them with you.
Age is irrelevant I have clients from their 20s to their 80s!
Join me and I Sharon Kenny The Matchmaker.ie will find your perfect partner for you.
I dint invent love but I did perfect it 😉
Thank you all for your continued support, my wonderful clients, my Blog readers, my family & friends & all those wonderful souls on my social media you make this passion of mine a joy.
Keep loving yourself
Sharon Kenny The Matchmaker.ie
Have you ever had a birthday coming up and thought, “Jesus another birthday I’m going to spend being single! How does this keep happening?”
Another birthday where you tell your friends “at least being single I can treat myself to a present I really wanted!” The Oscar for best performance in the role “Single & Loving It” is all yours!
Another year, and now you’ve just set the text on your phone to Large! The eyesight is failing! No one calls me “That guy over there” or “This young lady here”! It’s now Sir and Madam how did you become a single version of your parents!?
You’re a decent person. You quite like yourself! You’re funny, laid back, intelligent, attractive etc..
All the things the dating Gurus advise you to be! But still this nagging panic in the back of the head & the heart “What if I never Find the one!?”
Well here at The Matchmaker.ie I can tell you it will happen! So relax and let’s look at this from a rational point of view.
Firstly take a look at your life, can you honestly say you’re doing everything in your power to put yourself out and about?
I get a lot of clients at The Matchmaker.ie who aren’t into the pub scene and that’s fine, but there are plenty of other scenes!
I recently heard from a friend how she decided to take a chance and go to an archery display. Afterwards she was offered a chance to have a go herself. Here she met the guy she’s currently dating! He was her instructor. She’s 47, she did something out of her usual comfort zone!
Try it! For some of you joining me, Sharon Kenny at The Matchmaker.ie might be out of your comfort Zone!
I can tell you here at The Matchmaker.ie we have all ages looking for love, but the majority of our clients are mature professional people looking for a quality relationship.
We are living longer as a species, we don’t get married till later now. Even age differences aren’t as Taboo as they used to be (more on that in another blog)
The rules aren’t fixed or rigid anymore. Life doesn’t begin at 40 anymore it begins at 60!
Slow down because that panic will come across to anyone you encounter. It comes across as needy.
And we all know needy isn’t attractive.
Anyone remember the Pepe Le Pew cartoons!! That poor love starved skunk with the sexy French accent!?
So relax, take a moment and still yourself and ask yourself these questions.
Am I the only Single Person at my age?
What is the population of the county or province I live in?
Chances are with these two questions you’ve realised you’re not alone in your “situation”
Take a step away from the negative thinking and stop watching the clock.
There’s actually an advantage to being single at a late age! I swear, and it’s more than just having the money to buy a Superking bed all for yourself!
The fact is at this age you know yourself better than you did when you met your last mistake!
So this time when someone of lesser quality than you deserve crosses your path, you won’t be wasting your time!
At this age we don’t do Time Wasters anymore. So if you’re really truly feeling ready for love and with someone of quality then pop along to The Matchmaker.ie
And know honestly that there is a lot of people of all ages out there looking for love so regardless of your age you will find love its inevitable!
It’s even more inevitable if you come to me Sharon Kenny, the Matchmaker.ie. I have had huge successes with weddings and engagements to my list of achievements.
So take it from me the expert in Matchmaking it absolutely can happen for you no matter what age you are!
Keep believing in yourself
Keep loving you!
Lots of love
Sharon Kenny The Matchmaker.
We’ve all been there. You’ve broken up with someone you thought was the “one”, but it turned out not to be the case.
You start going over it in your head and inevitably start looking at all the things you did wrong. We conveniently forget their shortcomings during this period.
This leads to self-doubt, and shakes your confidence, as if the breakup itself hadn’t done a good enough job on that in the first place!
So The Matchmaker.ie is here to help you regain that Mojo you once had before and more!
It’s natural after a breakup to give yourself some time to heal and be alone. After a sufficient time (only you can decide how long this is) you’re ready to date again!
But something feels off you’re unsure of yourself you’re not feeling on top of your game.
Like Austin Powers the Mojo is missing. So here are five simple things you can do to get your Mojo back.
Time for a Change!
From time to time especially in a relationship we can neglect ourselves a little. We can get a little complacent with our appearance.
So why not get a new haircut, a makeover, or treat yourself to a personal shopper to give your look a whole new lease of life!
Change how you look and you’ll change how you feel about yourself.
A new hairstyle can take years off you, or even just refresh an already great look and make you feel better.
All sorts of Endorphins (Happy Hormones) are released at the beginning of a relationship that’s why it feels so amazing!
so why not get yourself to the gym and get exercising! It will release the same hormones as well as making great changes in your health and appearance. While I myself here at The Matchmaker.ie would be the first to say appearance isn’t everything, but if you feel great you’ll look great, if you look great you’ll feel great, and so begins a wonderful cycle of self-confidence and attractiveness.
Get yourself out and about. I always think we lose a little of our social life when we enter a relationship. When it ends it seems life has moved on without us a bit Get back out there!
Try evening classes, Poetry nights, days out with friends. Not everything has to be about the pub.
Take Road Trips with pals around Ireland. Re-establish your social circle of friends. Our friends are our greatest fans and are crucial to our self-esteem. Get out there laughing with them.
Laughter is the sexiest thing anyone can do so have fun!
Now before you cringe, and think of generations of self-help gurus, who’d have us chanting and exploring Ashrams in India in nothing more than a battered sarong and no makeup, and the men wearing Harem Pants! Yikes!
I’m talking a little more progressive than that. Here at The Matchmaker.ie I’m a huge advocate of Meditation. taking time out of one’s day for yourself to simply just be.
The benefits to mental health and happiness from meditation are not to be underestimated. The Matchmaker.ie is a huge fan of the law of attraction. Basically, if you’re happy & content in oneself you will attract someone who is equally happy & content.
Bringing Sexy Back!
You need to feel desirable again! Where do we start? Well this sort of ties into Number 1 point. Never underestimate the power of looking after yourself, on how you feel. Pamper yourself & treat yourself as you would expect a lover to paper & treat you.
Making sense? No? Ok date yourself, dress up, take yourself to the best coffee shop for a coffee!
Take yourself to places you’d want a lover to take you.
Look after you. Focus on making yourself happy in your own skin, this is the sexiest thing ever!!
Someone who is confident in their own skin and in their own company oozes sex appeal!
I hope my advice above helps you guys and girls get your Mojo back! Remember when you’re ready and that Mojo is overflowing, contact me and let me find the ideal match for you to share this sexy new you with!
I’d like to say a huge thank you to Mary O’ Conor of The Sunday Independant for recommending my services.
Its so good to know Mary has heard such positive feedback about the Matchmaker.ie
Keep loving yourself
lots of love
Sharon Kenny The Matchmaker
I’ve been matchmaking 30 years now and this is my 10th year professionally spreading the love.
My biggest discovery is thinking we know what we want but deep down there are parts we don’t. Why? Because so many of us don’t take the time out to look after us. My youngest client is 27 and my eldest client now is 79. Today I met a lovely entrepreneurial chap age 33. We will call him Chris as Christmas is just over. Chris was so prepared (which is not necessary because I can also help you with this). He has been in a relationships since he was 17 and so happy in himself that he has just taken three years out. Chris felt ignored and bossed in his relationships. This is because his parents split and he felt he didn’t get support from his Mum. As a teenager he was looking for that other half and chose exactly what his Mum was. A partner who is non supportive. He came to me knowing what kind of supportive relationship both ways he was looking for.
Step 1 is you.
How did you get along with your parents? Your siblings? Was there a favorite? How did you feel if it was you/ if it wasn’t you? Where you the carer, truth teller or the baby? This is all part of your awareness and understanding why you think the way you do instead of blaming.The purpose is to help you feel as happy and fulfilled as you can be to give you the best chance in feeling all loved up so you can give it back.
Chris was able to look back over his last three relationships and see a pattern, that I was going to help him break. He went for domineer girls who brought him down just like his Mum did. Now it was his time to appreciate where he is now. A successful business man who has all right in his life except for love. His head is now in the right space. This will encourage love through the right chanels. Me the matchmaker being one of them.
Step 2 be you
Be the best you can be. First impressions do count. It is amazing how much you remember about that first look even 30 years later. Couples remember scent clothes image and a smile. Put your best foot forward. He the most content and secure you can be. Do not over dress or underdress. Be comfortable in your clothing. This makes you happy in your own skin, which brings out the best in you.
Step 3 fulfilled you
Know what you like. Know where you feel most comfortable but don’t meet in your local. Unlike other dating agencies I do not agree about meeting for a meal first. Meet for a drink. There is nothing worse than been stuck with someone who you feel isn’t your type at all and working off the time. A drink also means better eye contact. We also learn more by what’s not said and pick up more. Then go for an early bird. Spontaneity creates excitment which also creates chemistry.
Here’s to love in 2017 and I am the matchmaker who will make it work for you. Remember make this a goal as resolutions are different. They are made to be broken. Let me help you find love.
Call me asap 0860711711
How do I start dating again?
When do I go for a kiss if you feel there is chemistry and a spark?
How do I come across to another partner sexually or does even using that word make you cringe?
The next line is usually, “all I’m looking for is someone to cuddle up with”.
Most start criticising themselves and then because of feeling silly, do nothing.
The thing is all you have to do is be yourself.
Take everything from holding hands to the first kiss at your own pace.
Don’t over thing, just enjoy.
I got a text this morning from a gent who was married 25 years and is now a widow. He genuinely didn’t know Val was interested. As the matchmaker I am I get rid of all the “not” I am not sure, not sure if shes interested and the last line says it all, “not confident”. I have the advantage of being that middle man and helping bring up his confidence by letting him know that she is interested. Now this guy is age 64 but the same applies if she’s 34.
So if this part of rejection is denied and you don’t have to face it, it is fair to say by going through the matchmaker and me being able to work that middleman action, I can and will help.
Call me and let’s chat. Love could be a call away.
I didn’t invent Matchmaking, but I perfected it!
So just help me by sharing this…help me help others :}
Lots of love
The Matchmaker who helps make it happen!
Whether you’re 39 years old and concerned about a ticking clock,
32 years old and feel you’re the last of your friends.
55 and not sure how you get started again,
74 and feeling you don’t want to be the next 20 years alone.
I’m here to advise and hopefully lead you down that path to love!
The single people are out there but it’s hard to get the time to find the right one.
It is vital to think of our bucket list and know what you really want.
It’s about meeting the right person by opening up as many ways as possible.
Be creative and connect meeting that partner by doing your bucket list and refining what you truly want.
I have so many clients who come to me and have every aspect of their life sorted. All they need is that unique partner to share it with.
Dating online works for 1%, so if you have the time, Tinder is good to try and POF also. They are free too. Be prepared to meet a lot of messers and fake profiles. However there are genuine people out there though searching is time consuming!
Take up a hobby to meet new and interesting people.
Open up every avenue. Different approaches suit different people, but the more you do the more likely you are to meet your dream partner.
When going on that special date, within the first 8 seconds we make judgements about one another. This could be one of the most important “interviews” of your life. Look your very best. Be the best version of you.
I advise ladies to meet for a drink rather than a walk as men are very visual. Sarah 35 went on a date with Sam 39. Sarah wanted to make an impression. Please ladies, if in doubt ask me. You never show to much leg AND a low cut top. One or the other. Rome wasn’t built in a day!
Leave the past relationship behind. Be genuine and wholesome. (For more info on leaving your baggage behind feel free to email Sharon@thematchmaker.ie)
I got Gabriel (age 44) to do an exit list. This is to deal with all baggage and be in a happy place for going forward. He was still name calling in relation to his ex. Write down all your exs. Add what you learned from that relationship and in your head, send her a thank you letter. You’ve discovered more about what you don’t want which means you won’t make the same mistake again.
Those who come to The MatchMaker have gone through a profile and been given tips and advice to suit you. You are meeting that person because they have qualities and aspirations that match yours. Don’t be afraid to discuss them.
Have fun, respect yourself and is chemistry there make sure you really get to know each other emotionally first.
100% of people who come to the matchmaker are looking for a genuine relationship and find they are making bad choices. I unblock you and help love go your way. I get rid of the messers and advise you where you can be a better you. You are now opening up for a loving and lasting relationship.
At the matchmaker we have to separate the men from the boys, the players from the lovers and the guys who just want to date from the guys who want to get married. It’s up to you to let us know what you are looking for. This is where you can save months of dating as you know these details from the start. It’s just to find next is there that potential spark with you.
One of the most enjoyable part is being like that magic middle lady that can find out what the other half is thinking. There are so many relationships I’ve helped save through lack of communication by not keeping that balanced momentum going and being able to help people by advising you in the right avenue.
E.g. Jill (not her real name) age 54 really likes Martin. He’s 59. She’s more interested in him than the other way around. If the balance isn’t equal it’s hard to keep the relationship going. Instead of her worrying about it ending I’ve encouraged her to believe in herself take a chill pill. Within 3 weeks the relationship is now going strong and at a speed they are both acceptable with. If I wasn’t there for the advice this would never have lasted!
So again be the best version of yourself. Be kinder to yourself. Be happy.
If privacy, trust, advice and time are issues for you. Call me and if nothing else we can have a chat and see can I help you! Call or text Sharon 0860711711
Here’s to love